Success and Failure
Many of us aim for the top spot in sport, but the reality is that only a small minority will make it there. Whilst that can be disappointing, it is also a natural part of any competitive process and we should acknowledge the difficult feelings that come with this.
Coping with 'failure';
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Recognise your achievements outside of winning competitions - along the way you will have achieved wonderful things which deserve to be celebrated
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Learn from your 'failures' and mistakes - they are an important development tool
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Take comfort in knowing that all athletes will experience 'failure' at some stage - even the most celebrated, and decorated sportspeople of all time like Serena Williams and Muhammad Ali have experienced set backs
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Allow yourself to be upset about perceived 'failures' but don't beat yourself up about them
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Know when your feelings are becoming overwhelming, and recognise that you may need some support